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This year marks my fifth year running for the Alzheimer’s Association. and
I’d like to preclude my story with how encouraged all of you (returning and
new) have made me in that we are not
alone and we will find a cure, and in the meantime that we are contributing to providing those in need of the support
services they so drastically need.
Just as important is the role we play as messengers to the cause on behalf of
those who cannot speak for themselves.
As many of you are aware, my mom was diagnosed with early Alzheimer’s close
to seven years ago. I have shared my connection with team over the years
therefore many of my returning team members are familiar with my connection to Alzheimer’s
as noted below.
My Mom hosted Christmas Eve dinner every year since as long as I can recall.
My families along with my two brothers gathered at my folk’s house each year.
Including our kids and their spouses we total over 20! She does all the
preparing. Being of Italian decent that includes a variety of pasta and seafood
dishes. 2007 Christmas Eve preparation became increasingly difficult as she
just couldn’t keep up with all that was required. She became very frustrated
and depressed. That is when we took her for tests and she was diagnosed with
Alzheimer's disease. She went from an incredibly smart and independent senior
to one that has difficultly doing and recalling the simplest day to day
She was an avid member of America Online until the age of 80
sending emails daily to her 9 grandchildren who were off at college. She would
check the results of my NYRR’s races online and before I made it home would
call me on my cell to congratulate me on my time!
It was especially difficult for my Dad who was 88 years old, since she
literally did everything for him from “soup to nuts”: the check book, the
savings accounts, the birthday gifts, retirement planning, cooking,
housecleaning, you name it she did it. On May 9th, 2011 my Dad passed away. She
was never able to fully grieve the passing of her life partner of 67 years (I
suppose it is a matter of opinion if that was a positive or not) Although her
condition worsened considerably after his passing
That’s where my story changed, from May ’11 – Feb ’12 my brother and I
become her primary caretaker on weekends. As we at first were only able to find
24/5 (Mon AM– Sat AM) care for her . He stayed with her on Saturday’s, I on
Sunday’s (We now have 24/7 care for her). Each week for 24 hours I saw how Alz
affects a person.
Today, she continues to maintain a positive upbeat attitude which to me is
simply amazing. She is no longer able to speak in full sentences and does not
recognize any of her family members but still is quick with a smile and a
laugh! That is why she is my inspiration is all I do!